The Invisible School

The school that I am revealing is invisible for the eyes that are looking for solid boundaries and rigid dogmas.

 It's invisible for the people that needs rules to abide to. It's invisible to the people that want to consume spirituality, like we consume our environment.

It will reveal itself to the seeker that is unraveling from the heart, longing for erotic innocence

and spiritual freedom. It’s a school that calls for personal maturity, self responsibility

and a great deal of commitment.


The Tantra School of Erotic Wisdom expresses from the living wisdom of the tantrik Dakinis. These wisdom teachings understand that spiritual realisation is an act of absolute devotion towards the suchness of our unique life experience on planet earth. This school is invisible because it's birthed from the deep feminine wisdom that refuses structure to express. Masculine embodiment worship the intellect, the linear, the creation of concepts and the literature on spiritual teachings. The Dakinis lived and expressed the teachings through their embodiment. Their wisdom lives in the destruction of concepts and the dissolution of thoughts. They didn’t write books, they passionately made love to the ever changing moment,

the erotic heart of Shiva. 


To study in this school is to practice devotion. The devoted heart is an open heart. Only when the heart is open truth can enter, before that readiness any attempt is a struggle. 

Life gives us plenty opportunities to break our heart open, use them wisely. When your armouring is being trampled with and tenderised enough by the heartbreaks of your life, you are finally ready for the true teaching of Love. The essence of Reality. Only then you will realise that your own heart is the heart of the Cosmos, your body is the body of Reality, and your Sexuality is the celebration of your human form. 


The teachings of this school are deeply drenched in the tantrik current of `Kashmir Shivaism, the teachings of Abinavagupta, the songs of Lalla, the transmission of Lalita Devi - my teacher’s Master, and the teachings of the ecstatic erotic current originally embodied by the DevaDasi (temple dancers - servants of God) that used their bodies as a portal for expanded states of awareness. The body that merges with the undifferentiated is the sacred map towards the mystery. Our divinity is intrinsic in our humanity. The infinite into the finite .The subtle into the gross. The extraordinary into the ordinary. The ecstatic into the mundane.

The sacred into the profane. 


In this School we are devoting our attention towards 3 primarily practices. Every practice is an act of worship to the experience itself. There is no striving. No measurements. Enlightenment is never a goal. We culture deep relaxation of the body-mind beyond spiritual fantasies and religious romances. 


When your practice becomes empty of spiritual concepts and clever ideas you can finally embrace this

ever-present moment with the erotic awareness that is gushing forth through you. 

 As you. Because of you. In spite of you. Meditating you. Liberating you. Forever birthed from your heart, passionately longing to be YOU .


When you learn to look into the invisible you will recognise this school that I am humbling revealing.

It has always been here. There’s no where else to be.

It's a love affair with Truth.


The Practices


A Tantric Revelation that Flows into movements.
Rooted in the ancient wisdom of the Vedas and the healing science of Ayurveda, this āsanas practice focuses on intrinsic relaxation of the physical body and the conscious mind. This sequence will meditate you into the Deepest Essence of your Being, where True Self reveals. From this space of infinite stillness, natural wisdom and authentic expression will arise.
(This practice is accessible to all ages and levels of fitness)


a Traditional Tantric Practice from the Kaula Tradition of Kashmir
Perhaps the oldest form of yoga known to us,
Tandava is a very slow, mystical dance that leads to the perception of the Cosmic Body and Attunement to our Infinite Nature . Although very simple to perform , it expresses the complexity of our living existence.
It’s the dance of true Spontaneity and loving Acceptance of ALL that we are.


The Sacred Art of Kashmiri massage – is a Traditional Meditation practice from the Spanda school of Shiva Tantra that uses touch work as a tool to understand the SELF as Empty Space and Absolute Bliss. This is an expanded progression of the practice of Tandava, and has the ability to profoundly nourish our nervous systems, to restore our innate sense of belonging, to reset our connection to life at large and to finally receive our body as an expression of Divine Celebration. Our birthright.


Team Erotic

MrsLove a.k.a. VALENTINA LEO

Mother of the School - Principal Teacher

 a Mystic, a Mother, a Lover & a Fool


Spiritual maverick, teacher of Erotic Wisdom and an Explorer of the Tantric Realms for over 20 years, Valentina is a Dakini ~ holder of the freedom lineage from the Tantric school of Fascinating Wonderment (Vismayo) that spontaneously birth female teachers of the pathless Path.


She is madly in love with the Mystery & the traditional tantric revelations of Kashmir Shivaism.

She is uncensored and untamed. Her teachings are intuitive and direct. Void of linear evolution, they only require a deep desire to become truly intimate with Reality.


It's the mystic path of endless Devotion to the Unknown. Working with her will require everything of you. She teaches the Yoga of Presence, Unbounded Freedom and Mystical Union with the vast Emptiness of pure Space.

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